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Forget the PUA stuff. Just be yourself. Get out there. Talk to people. The best way to learn to relate to others is to go out there and do it... not sit in front of a computer watching videos of guys tell you how they think women think.
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I agree. But the problem is there are so many guys who would rather jump from a cliff or slay a dragon but when it comes to talking to women, they just freeze. And the more beautiful she is, harder it gets. Usually, for such guys PUA teaches them the first step which is the opener. Then they realise that just opening is not enough, so they learn routines. But you cannot use routines on a date, so they learn how to engage in good conversation. PUA teaches you how to be charming, how to flirt, how to have a high EQ, how to listen to women, how to respond to them.
It is unfortunate that the word game conveys a different meaning. In reality, game has nothing to do with women. It is your mind and how you behave that are called inner game and outer game. Initially, I had the same impression of PUA but gradually I realised that to get women, you have to develop confidence, social skills. You have to love yourself first. Thats the reason why so many PUA's are referring to stevepavlina.com