Anything can help that gets a guy over being an Average Frustrated Chump, just as stuff like 'The Rules' 'Why Men Love Bitches' and 'Stop Getting Dumped' can help women who are Average Frustrated Chicks.
I've been with AFCs of both the Chick and Chump variety, and I've been an Average Frustrated Chick.
Here is the trouble of being in a relationship with an AFC:
If they are the AFC, you are probably an AFC too. AFCs get together and have very mediocre, dull relationships based upon two people settling, that probably contribute a great deal to the high divorce rate.
You are never really sure if the person is into *you* or if they just couldn't have someone "higher on their ladder". You never really feel secure. And you know that YOU settled, TOO. You never really feel sure that the other person is really in love with you, and don't experience what it's like to be with someone to whom you are really truly attracted, and vice versa.
Where it specifically applies to men/PUAs: lots of men get into relationships with women based upon being "unable to get laid". You end up with a long-term one night stand, not a true relationship based upon real connection. This isn't fair to the other party.
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