It could just be the particular bar you went to, as with restaurants and music venues, I try to stick to places that are 'my taste'. However, I understand your issue & I think they bring up interesting questions about male-female social dynamics. I wonder if certain men don't want to or know how to face rejection graciously so they push it to the point of rudeness to cover up embarrassment, I wonder if some almost push it <i> to </i>get a rude response so they could retaliate by calling 'bitch' and it protects the ego. Anyways, just ideas! My suggestion if you go to bars alone that don't have very many friendly people, to strike up conversation with the bartenders, they're often friendly, talkative & interesting!
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