hhmmm.
thanks guys.
I know the avoidance game sucks and that I should tell her and talk with her.
I think I just needed the word before I can actually do it. SOme encouragement I guess. I don't like being unkind and this sort of thing falls into the unkind category for me. ...I just can't do it
-shrug-
I guess there is no way to break it with someone without them getting upset.
I think i'll try slowly letting her go and dropping bigger hints. but if it still doesnt work i'll sit down and talk to her.