Some say that this sort of "pick-up" is wrong and immoral. I'd have to disagree. Some of the stuff in the "community" is really good. Like it was already pointed out here: DavidD, Neil.
I think it was DavidD that points this out. Women generally (not all) are way more "manipulative" if you think about it. They spend hours in front of the mirror putting make-up and dressing up sexy to attract men. That's because men generally (not all) "judge by the cover" first, and only then look on the inside. Women care less about the looks and more about the personality of a man.
I think working on the "inner game" is the way to go. It isn't some tool or tactic that you use. When you get your inner game in order, that's who you become, it's not "pretend-to-be-me", IT IS me now.
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