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Old 01-17-2009, 04:14 AM   #23 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by jaamkie View Post
probably none of my business and probably the man himself will answer your question, but my assumption was that "professional reasons" are simply that it would totally undermine his message of the health of non-monogamous relationships if it became public that he'd got an STD, and certainly any guy that gives a lover an STD out of carelessness/dishonesty would deserve all women's scorn, not their continued support and affection. Presumably part of his success at selling his coaching to men is based on his own success with women- if he has a string of angry lovers after him spreading rumors, or had to refrain from sex for awhile because of an infection, I'm sure it wouldn't help his business. Plus if he's genuine in what he's selling, being anything less than careful and responsible would be acting incongruent wth his message of respectfully honestly healthily enjoying many sex partners.
Oh! Queen of the Blindingly Obvious (me) strikes again!!
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