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Originally Posted by SomeRandomGuy  A ) YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED IN BEING HER BOYFRIEND, nor do you want her as 'your Girlfriend' -- 'cuz while the respect/friendship/admiration is there in abundance, the chemistry isn't a fit - there's no 'Romantic Crush' aspect for how you feel about her - Just true, real, justifiable appreciation, and that's enough! |
I would like to ask for one clarification. The subject of this thread is
converting girl friends to 'girlfriends' - You specifically, however, mention telling the girl that you do not want her as 'your Girlfriend'.
Is this simply a matter of the subject not entirely matching the message of the post? Or are you suggesting that to get a girl to become your girlfriend you should tell her you do not want her as a girlfriend?[/quote]
Neither: This is a distinction between
ROLES and
TITLES - which I cover in another thread,
HERE.
I'm explicitly speaking about adding a sexual component to an existing friendship, without risking (or altering substantively) said existing, enduring, ongoing, and valuable friendship.
Johnny Soporno
Worthy Playboy