As someone who's had many male friends (and either been their object of affection, or watched them make mistake after mistake with their own objects of affection), this is my two cents about how to make a girl friend into a girlfriend...
DON'T. Don't get on the friends track if you're looking to date and attracted to the woman. You won't get anywhere. If you want to date her, start off dating her. Make your intentions known from the beginning. Stay consistent, too.
If you started off friends, or she turned you down and you stayed friends (with ulterior motives), and she accepts whatever you offer while not actually dating you, it's not her fault, it's yours.
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