I'm sorry, why did you write this post? To try to figure out what happened?
Sounds something like this to me: you were expecting bars to be places you can just hang out casually without sexual advances. Your expectations did not match reality and you found out that this is not the case.
So, do you want to find other places where this is not the case? Classes might be good. I'm sure there's some free classes going on around your town somewhere. Dance, yoga, meditation, cooking, whatever.
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