The only way we can learn and grow and improve is by deciding which ideas are better than others. That is judgment, but judgment about ideas. We need to separate the idea from the essence of the person.
I suggest that Steve does judge - but judges ideas. Some people believe that it is better to speak in hypotheticals so that your individual learning is private and the ideas are further isolated so it does not become about the person. Others think that this approach lacks authenticity. I personally like to remain private in my learning, while at the same time, I appreciate Steve's willingness to be open. He presents a raw and very real experience for all of us to learn from.
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