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Originally Posted by Megan  Steve, you're putting yourself out as a teacher. You are in a position to affect many families for generations to come. That carries a lot of responsibility.
Do you think you are a victim because people are disagreeing with you, i.e., "exposing our differences openly"?
If you are not a victim, why do you need to "forgive" us?
You invited people to discuss this. Now they are discussing it.
You are embarking on a risky social experiment with your family, knowing, admitting, that it may end in divorce. Children of divorce have many difficulties.
You are doing this because you want to have sex with other women. Do you chose to risk putting your children through a lot of pain so you can have sex with other women? Is that a snapshot of your priorities?
You said it was a mistake to marry Erin. Does it follow, then, that your children are also a mistake?
You are putting a lot on the line to satisfy your sexual desires.
You don't have to believe me, but you don't get do-overs with your children's childhoods, however much you may someday wish you could. |
Barf. I simply don't buy into the frame you're using. It's littered with inaccurate and very judgmental assumptions. It's like talking to a tabloid where you have to answer questions like, "Which alien fathered your child?"
If you want to offer up some honest questions for discussion, that's fine. But please don't troll for an emotional reaction by posting this kind of stuff. This is bait, not authentic communication.