I'm in the same place. I would suggest just letting the friendship go mentally, which it seems your subconscious is already starting to put you through the process of by having you write out your feelings on this forum. Still be nice and friendly towards them but don't pursue deepening or reinforcing the relationship. It is probably unlikely, and it didn't happen this way in my situation, but your friend might see your lack of effort and begin to fight for your friendship. This shows that they value your friendship enough to be willing to listen to your concerns and try to restructure your relationship.
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