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I’m especially turned on by people who follow non-mainstream paths that expose them to a lot of criticism. I’ve found that such people tend to be far more conscious than most, often because the harsh judgment they receive helps them grow stronger and more committed to doing what they believe is right. When you realize that it’s impossible to satisfy everyone, you stop worrying so much about the opinions of others, and you start tuning in and listening to yourself more and more. This can be a powerful catalyst for a very conscious life. Not always… but quite often.
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Is the harsh judgment as helpful as the genuine acceptance and support? Isn't harsh judgment what causes the self-smothering conformity in the first place? I see new loving accepting connections as more empowering than the harsh judgment of the people who seek to smother you.
I'm very happy you are becoming polyamorous Steve, I hope this will bring an influx of awesome people into your life. I like to see it beyond the shagging and in a more holistic viewpoint, simply adding more supportive strongly bonded people in your direct circle of interaction. 2009 will be interesting.