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Originally Posted by Magicinthenight  I think the friends with benefits/f-buddies thing can work quite well as long as neither parties are emotionally attached and accept the situation. |
In my own experience, there is always SOME emotional attachment, albeit often strictly an 'agape' aspect of love, devoid of romantic delusions or erotic aggrandizement - and that is KEY as to why these encounters can be such an enhancement to an otherwise adequate and comfortable relationship.
Acceptance that the situation might never (and likely SHOULD never change) removes the greatest challenges to an ongoing, enriching situation.
Johnny Soporno
Worthy Playboy