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Originally Posted by TektonikShift  Dear friends, I need to take an important decision regarding a story I have already mentioned before, but I thought I would make it simpler in a new post since the previous one was complicated and discussed different topics at the same time.
Basically I messed up with a girl and realized my mistakes much later... very much later. They weren't great mistakes but little mistakes of attitude.
I know that after a separation normally it's better to let a lot of time pass until you recontact them in any way. However, I feel that if I have to be honest about myself I should at least write to her that I realized what my mistakes were and that, regardlessly of what she thinks about me now, I will become a better person in life and towards other people, and that I learned it thanks to her.
People often say that "No Contact" is the best option since ex-girlfriends might otherwise think you're clingy and just trying a plan to get them back.
We haven't spoken since a month and a half, and she might be already over with me now. |
Honest apology always, no contact will breed more bad vibes.