Do you really want a partner? And if you do, why? What are the things you are looking for to receive from having a partner. And what are the things you're looking to give to a partner? Sounds like you have your mind full and your days filled even without having to share your time with someone.
Is it necessary for your partner to share the same goals/ideals/intensity as you?
This especially made me ask those questions:
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Originally Posted by pyrogen 
On the other hand, though, I'm also very self-centered. I'm usually so consumed with "my stuff" that there isn't really room for anyone else unless they're doing "my stuff" with me.
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It's hardly fair to ask someone to dedicate their time to do "your stuff" or at least for the relationship to be balanced, there should be some interest in "their stuff" as well.