The good thing about being yourself (albeit yes, it helps when you're in a right place emotionally as people with self-esteem issues have more difficult time even in relationships) is that you don't have to be afraid: once someone falls for you as you are, you know they like the real you, not the facade you're putting up.
And yes, being yourself and being someone who's attractive can be hard but once your head and heart are in the right place and you value yourself, you'll have a lot easier time attracting someone who is right for you.
We all want different things in a partner, it makes no sense try to tailormake yourself into something you think all people might fancy as that doesn't exist.
Couple of things I'd add: do things you love, be with people who excite you, don't waste time chasing after things. It all makes it easier for you to find the person who is really compatible with you.
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