[Johnny Soporno]

Originally Posted by RRR

This style of friendship has worked wonders for me. I listened to your lectures about a year ago and they entirely changed they way I socialize.

Thanks for the feedback, RRR. I am delighted to learn of the overlap between Steve & Erin's appreciators and my own

My seminars are still available for free downloading from 'Worthy Playboy'(tm) Johnny Soporno presents: Introduction to Seductive Reasoning 101 - un-edited, live recording - there are now six hour-long segments, where there had been only two last year, so please feel free to grab the last two, but ideally rewatch them from the beginning - there are some monumental reframes in the initial four segments, and watching them again after putting them into play will reveal an astonishing amount more that you'd surely missed the first-past!

Originally Posted by RRR

I have a question. What do you describe yourself as when you are "just friends"?

I never describe myself that way - I never deliniate 'JUST' in front of 'friends', as I find it demeaning, and frankly rather tragic. I simply refer to us as 'friends'.

Whose business is it if we sleep together, aside from our own, after all?

Originally Posted by RRR

I would say that and it tended to raise problems. Does this indicate I had begun to count? What should I do once I've begun to count and I don't want to? It felt that the time I began to count was around the same time we became closer emotionally..which I enjoy just as much as the sex.

The 'not counting' quality is meant merely as a stop-gap, whilst assisting your female friends in recognizing that there is NEVER ANY REASON TO "COUNT" their lovers, period.

It is NEVER anyone else's business but their own.

Originally Posted by RRR

Did you behave this way when you first met your primary? Do you maintain this kind of relationship with all the women you are with?

I work to emancipate women from the oppression of society's insistence that any woman who does not follow the 'traditional wifely role' must be decried and condemned for her wickedness... and brow-beaten by friends and family until she recants, via phrases like "When are you going to settle down/grow up/take your life seriously/raise a family?"

I do not ask my playmates to reveal their 'count' to me, either the public number, or the actual one.

Originally Posted by RRR

Its great to have you here Johnny. Welcome to the boards.

Thanks again, RRR - I hope to be able to contribute regularly!

Johnny Soporno
'The Man Who Didn't Count'