Don't say "Just be yourself", say "Be an attractive guy"
Listen up guys and girls! This is great advice. As a guy, I can't tell you how frustrated I got hearing "Just be yourself"! Before I knew a thing or two about being an attractive guy, being myself just kept giving me the same results I was already getting! And what is worst is that I can't build from that. My mind goes in circles with nowhere to go.
Girls, Mums, sisters and Aunts around the world, listen up! When you give that advice, realise that your only giving half the answer. The half you're missing is the important half.
"Be an attractive guy" is probably a much better response.
Of course, the next question the guy is going to ask is "How?"
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