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Originally Posted by ns123  Yes, I do disagree with you. Just because some one seemingly doesn't add anything positive in your life right now, or is draining you, doesn't mean you should drop them. Sometimes it does, other times it doesn't. This is because people don't fit into neat little boxes - "loser" or "winner." There are many people in my life who are both "losers" and "winners" it just depends on the situation and perspective. Some times they drain, some times they inspire. Some times, they are "losers" who teach me very valuable things. Some times, they are losers who turn into winners with love, kindness, and attention - they are opportunities for me to inspire.
And yes, I also do agree with you, that some people, if they affect you in such a negative way that it is a detriment to your own well being, yes, you should move away from that person. I prefer letting them go with love instead of "Get rid of them!" |
Okay, if i sit at home, don't go to work, don't try to find new work, have no source of income, but I do go and party so I can find girls to hook up. And oh yea, I do drugs....
what can I
possibly inspire you to do? Now is it really worth your time hanging out with this person? If
YOU can get out of your comfort zone and find new friends to hang out with, wouldn't that help you grow?
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Some times, they are losers who turn into winners...
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This would mean that they would have to start the process of finding a job, cutting off on partying, slowing down on drugs etc. If they are
willing to do so then sure, keep them around and support them. People don't just go from losers to winner, do they? Lotto doesn't count
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I prefer letting them go with love instead of "Get rid of them!"
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Sure, whatever way you let them go is fine. It's not like I mean to drive down the state highway to nowheresvile, kick em out of the car and drive off