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Originally Posted by ns123  I think people who call others losers are losers.
Just kidding. But really, if some one calls me a loser, I would definitely not want to spend any of my time with them.
Who gets to define what a loser is anyway? What you think of as a loser may not be the same as what I think of as a loser. And some times, some people who could be perceived as losers end up winners.
Ever see Little Miss Sunshine? The whole family can be seen as losers, but where it counts, they are winners. Ever see Night at the Museum? Larry could be seen as a loser, but in the end, it is revealed he is a winner, he just hadn't found out what he was meant to do yet. When he did, he excelled.
We can all come up with an definition of what a "loser" is, but I don't find it a very productive use of my time. Nor is it a very good litmus test to see if some one is worth spending my time with.
Calling people losers has never manifested anything positive, nor has it been very productive to me. |
Look, I think a few of you are now ignoring the point here. Who cares what these people are called. It makes no difference. I can call them one thing and someone else can call them another, it doesn't matter. The point is, whatever you want to refer to these people as, losers, non winners, energy vampires, whatever they are, bottom line is, get rid of them and out of your life, else you'll be stuck with them. Lay down with dogs, come up with fleas.
Little miss sunshine...how are they losers? I never considered them to be that way. Where it counts they are winners? What do you mean by that?
Larry from night at the museum...never would say he is a looser either. He had a job, tried to make money, was doing something with his life. Then he achieved something better...so no clue where your going with that one there either?
I don't go around calling people losers. I simply stay away from them. I don't put them down. I don't put signs around their house. I just stay away. I encourage everyone else to do the same.
If one chooses to live a life of being lazy, why would you waste your time? we only have one life to live, so make the best of it.
Don't you agree?