Personal Development for Smart People Forums - View Single Post - Honest apology vs No Contact for some time

JimOfferman · 01-13-2009, 02:43 PM

I believe honest communication is always best.

By that I mean: do and say what you want to do and say. If you feel a need to apologize, then apologize. Just be sure to do it because it makes you feel better to have apologized, not to achieve some hidden goal.

If she ends up feeling better after the apology, that's just a bonus.

01-13-2009, 02:43 PM	#2 (permalink)
JimOfferman Family Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 1,823	I believe honest communication is always best. By that I mean: do and say what you want to do and say. If you feel a need to apologize, then apologize. Just be sure to do it because it makes you feel better to have apologized, not to achieve some hidden goal. If she ends up feeling better after the apology, that's just a bonus.