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Originally Posted by cacheborn David,
Have look at today's post on Tony's blog.
I agree with the replies. Please seek
professional help as soon as possible.
Don't lose heart. We are all with you.
PS : Perhaps this thread should be moved to Emotional Mastery? |
Thank you cacheborn for this post as it showed up on my site and allowed me to see it.
David,
First let me say, please don't do anything to hurt yourself (be it physically or by tormenting yourself with your thoughts). There are people out there and on here who love you and want to see you do good. You said it yourself, you have real friends. They would want to see you happy. Just look at all the people on here who want to see you do good.
You said you don't like living in a world where nothing can be known for sure and also that you don't know where your life is going.
Let's look at those two first.
First, there IS order to what might seem lke a chaotic world. Just like the physical law of gravity, there are certain infallible spiritual laws that govern us such as the laws of compensation, vibration, gender, transmutation, relativity, etc.. Visit
Home @ Concept-Therapy or shoot me a PM and I'll go through more of them with you or help you out with anything else I can. Also, I would contact the Concept Therapy Institute through the website I gave you and tell them about your situation. If you don't want to tell them everything, just tell them you're feeling down and need some direction. Their work changed my life and I am sure it can do the same for you.
Second, the reason thngs might look like nothing can be known for sure is because you don't know where your life is going. Your inner world is a reflection of your outer world. If you feel confused on the inside, your outer world is going to reflect that.
So what do you do? You set yourself one BIG, POWERFUL goal or purpose that you direct yourself towards. It will give you drive and a sense of direction in your life. It will expand your horizon and give you something to work towards. Also, it will take this energy that is going inwards destructively and put it outwards constructively. Watch this video by the "Dean of Motivation" Earl Nightingale and do the 30 Day Experiment it has at the end. It will transform your life
The Strangest Secret
When you have a purpose, you'll have all the motivation you need.
There IS hope out there. There IS a reason you are here. All you need to do is find it. Start asking yourself the bigger questions; what do I want to do with my life? if I could do anything what would it be? how do I want to be remembered? what do I love doing? and so on.
Please try the experiment and the other items I have written. There is a purpose for you, I am sure of it.
My cousin decided to commit suicide on Friday. If she had told me she had planned on doing this, I would have done ANYTHING I could to help her out. There are SO many of us that loved her and were willing to help. I just wish she could have seen it.
With you David, there is time and people who want to help you. I hope this in some way helps. Please let me know if you need anything else. Lastly, there is a saying that I heard once, I think it goes like this, when you feel like you're having a breakdown, you're not having a breakdown but a breakTHROUGH. You're seeing that your old way of life no longer works and that it's time for something new and better. I think you can find that and we're all here to help you in any way we can.