Carnelian, the best thing you can probably do is talk to him about it, or propose yourself. It's as simple as that, I believe. Angela seems to be encouraging you to question why you are feeling the way you feel, which is always a good thing to do. In other words, she wants you to be conscious. A lot of people on this forum are kind of against a conventional marriage, but if it's a conscious (not dictated by the big bad "society") decision, then they should have nothing to worry about.
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Originally Posted by ellie  I personally don't get the whole marriage thing and how that would make someone feel more secure. |
A marriage certificate definitely means little "security," as evidenced by the divorce rate. Still, there are plenty of good reasons to get married.
I personally don't get the whole fish as a pet thing. They're boring as hell. Still, I'm sure there are many good reasons, although I don't want a fish.
Bluemoon, weddings don't have to be expensive. Besides, it's a memorable event. A time to bring friends and family together to celebrate. Why do we have New Year parties? It's just another day, after all! Well, we do it for fun and memory, among other things.