Hmmm ok, not all is necessarily lost. I have to admit I have reacted like this girl in the past (when I was much younger) and basically it was because I was scared.
What I would of loved...was the guy to come back and sort of relax the whole situation (I know, I know). I know I've wanted to go back to the guy and just straighten the whole thing out, but I was too chicken - he he!
I would of liked to say "hey, sorry you just caught me off guard and I just needed some time to digest what you said. I'm not very good at this whole dating thing...bla..blah, can we start again and just out for coffee as friends and see how we go".
I'm not exactly sure what you should say to relax the situation, but something quite simple.
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