Is there anything that might be subconsciously holding you back from going into a conversation? Like, are you afraid of commitment or afraid of sex or anything?
It might help to be in the present moment, also, and if you're a really internal person, to go more external. Ask questions. Notice responses. Say "me too," and add to her response. Be genuine. Tell stories. Share. The worst that can happen is the conversation falls apart and you can start over with someone more like you. Keep trying.
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