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Originally Posted by Angela  How strong is your desire to get married? Is it stronger than your desire to be with this guy? Or about the same, neck and neck? Why do you want to be married (in general)? Why do you want to be married to this fellow in particular?
If you were married to Mr. Fizzle, what would you have that you don't have now? |
I have a really strong desire to get married, and it is neck and neck to the guy.
I want to be married because it is such a deep, romantic, spiritual commitment and it is the next level, and it means security to me, and it is the "grand gesture" I have been looking for.
This guy is really sweet and really understands me (except for this one big thing, I guess.)
I think our relationship is missing the grand gesture, from my thoughts on the Mr. Fizzle question. Like "I would cross a continent for you" instead of "I will watch TV with you," which is what I have right now.