[Shaden]

Hey realusername good to see your still hanging in there. I think we can all breath a collective sigh of relief!

It sounds like you've got it rough - but regardless of how you feel at the moment you have to listen to us. You are going to be perfectly fine - trust us. All your friends, as well as us and everyone who hears your story will agree on this. At the moment you're very emotionally involved - it's an incredibly common situation. What I ask you to do is to just focus on a date in the near future - maybe next month, sometime in February. I promise you that you will feel better by that time - much better. We've all been here before so we can attest for this and offer our sympathy. You have to trust us when we say that things will get better and we speak not from our knowledge of science or psychology or relationships but from something far more reliable - experience.

I wish you the best of luck!