I have two things to suggest:
First, find yourself a spiritual advisor. If you're not spiritual or religious yourself, ask for a recommendation from someone you trust. If you're atheist or agnostic, find yourself a good counselor who can help you find some direction.
Second, find a trusted role model, ideally one you can be close to, like a friend or family member. Let them know what you're looking for and that you'd like to use their example to help you live a better life.
I wish you the best of luck.
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A truly open mind will seriously consider all points of view, even those with which it strongly disagrees for there may be a grain of truth in even the most ridiculous of opinions.
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