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Originally Posted by DerekH  Do guys get scared at all if you tell them about your lifestyle? |
I date mainly women, but neither guys nor girls tend to get scared when I tell them I'm poly. When I've met people I'm potentially interested in dating, I meet usually either friends of friends (and since I hang out with a lot of poly and other alternative lifestyle folks, most of them are either poly or know about poly) or I meet them on a dating site where I can specify that I'm looking for poly people (for instance polymatchmaker.com) or I put it really clearly in my profile. I'm full of plenty of other surprises; I don't need to surprise people with polyamory too. (:
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Originally Posted by DerekH Do you have both male and female partners sexually? |
Yup. I'm bisexual but mostly lesbian. (I'm actually bisexual when it comes to sex and lesbian when it comes to gender, but that's confusing and could lead us off topic.)
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Originally Posted by DerekH Do you have a primary relationship? |
Yes, I'm married to Kyeli (not legally). We've been together for 4 years. For the first three of those years, we were two-thirds of a polyamorous triad. As a triad we were mostly exclusive (polyfidelitous) and didn't seek out new relationships outside the triad.
Thanks for asking!