I think that AFCs actually have hurt the most women.
Here is what's wrong with AFCs:
* How many of us are sick of guys who want to be our "friends" then turn around and act passive-aggressive and pissy because they really had another agenda. We'd rather be approached, and have the option of saying NO to an honest approach. If you're going to approach us, approach. If you want to just be friends, just be friends. Don't confuse us. [And the fact that most "friends" actually want play, messes with us when we meet a guy we like who DOES want to just be friends.]
* What about those bitter guys such as over at nomarriage.com, intellectualwhores.com, et cetera. AFC losers.
* We're sick of guys who don't know how to behave on a date.
* We're sick of guys who have hidden agendas. If you're going to approach for sex, don't pretend you want a relationship when you don't.
PUA isn't about pretending you want a relationship.
* we're sick of being "settled for". Every person wants to be "the one" to their partner, and deserves it.
* We're sick of guys getting with us who didn't get all their "fun" out of their system before settling down.
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