I've noticed similiar stuff going on in my life. I'm on college and come home rarely, once every 3-4 months. I have phases in my head, i'm thinking a lot and i feel that i've changed a lot in last year or so. But they still see me as 18 years old boy. They think they know me but they only know who i was. So it was exciting going home for holidays, i was unsure what will our relationship look like. And everything i predicted happened.
It is just process of growing up, i guess in man's life there comes a time when he has to go from parents and be person he wants to be. If they don't understand you that doesn't mean they don't love you anymore. You're probably so much similiar to your mother and father but no one can see that clearly. They have raised you, they are big part of you and your personality. And it is hard enough to live just with yourself, you don't have to watch another little yourself doing or talking something you don't want to.
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