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Originally Posted by Angela  I never noticed my name was in bold anywhere, but I like it!  |
It's in bold, with 'Moderator' underneath, top of every post. Compare the text to other usernames. It is actually a bit confusing. I didn't see anything on the page that says who is actually the mod on the forum. I guess I'd have to go into the listings.
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What? Where? Do you mean the "too much verbiage..." remark? If so, yes, I was quoting Lucky, and addressing him there, too. Otherwise, I'm not following you.
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My mistake again. You clearly said "Lucky..." at the head of the paragraph, and by the time I'd got to the quote I thought you were talking to me. "You talkin' to ME?!" I probably need to slow down a bit.
Still, on the other hand, I have to say I find your point can be a little patronising and idealist when you're on the receiving end of it, that if someone offends us it is an opportunity for our personal growth. I mean, I know that it is, I just mean that that's not the whole picture. Anyway, it's probably worth sympathising with someone's annoyance a little first, before telling them to make the best of it. Quite why you have a problem with someone being 'annoyed' rather than one of the other things you suggested, I have no idea. I feel that lucky was probably trying to restrain his anger a little for politeness sake. But maybe he was just 'annoyed' and that was the right word.