Cheers,
Thanks for the answers! It indeed seems that my life has become more
interesting and exciting. Unfortunately, I slept very badly last night because of trying to "fall directly" into the dream, which always raised my heart rate too much. I hope I can go on with this without the waking life suffering too much.
Another star, in all my threads here, someone brings up EFT - I now nominate this "Smallstar's Law".

The code-word thing is interesting though, while it might be effective also outside EFT in some cases. (Also note that as the issue is a big one, I probably overreacted.)
StevenAitchison - I already tried to manifest one solution into my dream, but instead of communication about the issue with an "inner guardian", I ended having socially acceptable small talk in a non-lucid dream

(however, the setting provided me with some other important points). How would you recommend doing the manifestation?
Anyway, here is my little software package, containing a Windows executable, source code and a BSD open source license but no comments or documentation. The nag time is fixed into 10 minutes. No fancy auto-startups or such, and if you accidentally kill the program or shut down the computer, you need to re-start manually.
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-SS (Mood 2)