I dont think it's constructive to think of people in terms of snap-judgmental labels like "loser". everybody has their own journey, everyone has their own limitations and choices.
It's another matter if they're leeching off your energy, holding you from attaining your goals, in which case you simply spend less time with them, but not ostracise them for it.
On your site it's listed:
How can you classify one as being a loser?
* No job (not looking hard enough)
* No money (lack of motivation to make it)
* Lazy
* Party all the time (unless it’s related to your job)
* Too much drugs
* Too much focus on girls (for guys, mainly 18-25)
* Willingness to NOT step out of comfort zone
These are guidelines you've set up based on what you have percieved as the current level / median of what is not 'cool' based on society. This is herd mentality, and judging is ego driven.
And it's funny - who'r you to decide how much is 'not looking hard enough for a job'?
Why is 'no money or lack of motivation to make it' a criteria for loser. By that logic you've just labelled many lightworkers as losers without thinking about it. Even many darkworkers who're going through a rough patch would be at a point where they have no money and their motivation lies elsewhere.
I could go on with the rest of your 'criteria' but I think you get the picture.
Bottom line: Don't judge other people by your perceptions and aspirations and metric on life.
I would recomend you think about not being so ego driven and shallow. Accept people for who or what they are instead.
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