Depends how you define PUA. I am admittedly becoming less fond of the term the more I see of it.
The "PUA" stuff I see is all about how to manipulate women to get a notch in a bedpost. I suppose there are women out there who also use men? It's all a big act, and none of it is real.
I'd rather be with shy or nerdy and real than an "artist" any day.
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That being said, being with a real woman is AMAZING. Yes, we ask for numbers, kiss first, and have awesome orgasms (please: if you had one, she should too.)
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Thanks, carnelian heart, for your great post!!!
I also don't see what is so hard about asking someone for a number (male or female). It's just a phone number -- you're not proposing marriage. The worst he/she can say is "no".
Love the orgasm comment! I can't believe there are so many times people have sex where the woman doesn't get to climax?! I think a guy would die if the woman stopped halfway through sex, announced she was done, and suddenly fell asleep.
Maybe instead of promoting PUA acting, we can talk about real ways people can have these AMAZING experiences with other people. Here is one site I found interesting. His latest video is on making connections with another person via sex and relationships:
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