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Originally Posted by dwixi  ...? |
If your "need" can only be fulfilled with or by a specific person (other than yourself, of course
), then you might want to ask yourself, "Is this truly a need? What will happen if it's not fulfilled? Will I die? Will they take away my children? Will the world stop turning on its axis?"
Depending on the answers you get, you might find that what you call a need that can only be fulfilled by a specific person is actually a strong preference, and that your deep-down heart's desire is available to you in abundance, regardless of what this specific person is up to.
I just think it's worth looking at, don't you?