Oh, I also wanted to say that I don't think it is necessary to wait to make the man want a woman more. I think the woman should be so sexually empowered that SHE can have sex because SHE wants it and has the ability to take that from the man and own it. It does require a bit of detachment from what you were saying about how when a woman receives an orgasm she feels a strong emotional connection that makes her want to commit to the man, I have to admit I definitely feel that too, however, as soon the sex and snuggling and cuddling is over, I am still an independent strong minded woman and my sense of self is not clouded over by an orgasm! I think it is much more sexy and appealing when men realize they are with a very sexually empowered woman who is proud of her body and her sex and is probably receiving more pleasure from sex than he is! I think this feeling makes a man want a woman more, to be the one who pleases her the most. This puts sex back in control for the woman when the man is actively trying his best to do all he can to give the woman a mind blowing orgasm. (Mm..is it getting hot in here?)
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