Sometimes we ask a question, but we do not want hear the answer. Instead we only want somebody to re-enforce what we like to believe. You are an intelligent girl who can make up her own mind. I am sure you will find the answer. It's hard to say what is right or wrong when it comes to the matter of the heart.
From my experience, if you really want him to stay, you need to re-read this book. There are so many points in there that are so relavant for your situation. I have dealt with the hot and cold type many times and there is one thing that I can tell you for sure that as you get colder he would get warmer. And when he is thawing and comes back to you, just be very pleasant, no drama, no explanation. Just be your normal, pleasant, intelligent self and welcoming him back in your arms. I did it many times, not to play games but just simply protecting my heart, my pride and dignity. To me no guys is worthy enough for my to give up all those. and surpringly they always come back but whether I still want them when they come back to me is another question. Because simply my dear the hot and cold type is just not really worth the effort. I like my man hot, hot and hot all the time.
good luck.
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