At the moment it doesn't sound like you are very happy with how things are.
Consequently you can choose to stay unhappy as you are now or you choose to redirect your own life.
You can still lend him a helping hand, but sever the parts that are making you unhappy.
If you are fighting all the time I can't see that helping yourself much.
You know the situation better than us so you need to decide but it sounds like the relationship is not on the way up.
It is fine to care, but don't have the desire to help run you into the ground.
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