Just let sex happen naturally. You will find that you will become really excited and want to move to the next stage. Start by kissing and carressing. Foreplay is more important for females as they become aroused at this stage which is essential for lubrication. There's no way you will go into her urinary tract as the opening is tiny. explore it all with your fingers. When you are ready, then make love. It's a natural act and your body will respond accordingly. Ask your partner to tell you what she likes, what feels good and you tell her the same. It's different for each person so no matter how experienced you are, you have to learn what a new partner likes.
Don't worry about oral sex at this stage. You can master that when you feel more confident. The other thing to mention is contraception and safe sex. You can practice putting a condom on now. Make sure you squeeze all the air out from the end of the condom.
And most importantly have fun.
Alison
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