So what you are saying is that you would lose his love and friendship if you stop paying his rent?
Let me say that again. Your fear is that if you tell him that he has to pay his own way he won't love you any more.
Can you see where I'm going with this?
Is that really love? The pain you feel is because deep down you are facing up to this.
if he loves you, he will love you even if you don't pay for his lodgings.
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