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ajkumar · 01-05-2009, 07:51 PM

being a loser doesn't mean you have to not be rich. In this case, your friend brings you down, even though he makes money. Making money doesn't matter, it's how you portray success. Success means that the person is growing. If your friend makes good money but is bringing you down, then he indeed is a loser and you must get rid of em.

I personally think if your playing video games all day (and your not in that industry) then your wasting a lot of time. Sounds like he's content where he's at, so you hanging with him doesnt benift you.

Just because you don't have a job DOES NOT mean your a loser, because your making the effort. Your mindset = wanting to grow, compared to being content.

does that make sense?

01-05-2009, 07:51 PM	#4 (permalink)
ajkumar Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 130	is your friend a loser? being a loser doesn't mean you have to not be rich. In this case, your friend brings you down, even though he makes money. Making money doesn't matter, it's how you portray success. Success means that the person is growing. If your friend makes good money but is bringing you down, then he indeed is a loser and you must get rid of em. I personally think if your playing video games all day (and your not in that industry) then your wasting a lot of time. Sounds like he's content where he's at, so you hanging with him doesnt benift you. Just because you don't have a job DOES NOT mean your a loser, because your making the effort. Your mindset = wanting to grow, compared to being content. does that make sense? Last edited by ajkumar; 01-06-2009 at 06:38 PM.