Originally Posted by Colm OReilly
Sean, I don't use the words becoming or attracting or anything like that in affirmations. For me, if I'm becoming something I'm not it yet. So the thing I want to become (in your case, "more confident") is always in the future, and never in the here and now.
For me, personally I found that I could say "My confidence is growing daily". This means I already have confidence and it is still improving.
So true, Colm... and weren't we talking about "managing our unconscious" yesterday?
Perhaps this is just that, altering how we think about things in what might seem to be subtle ways---"I am becoming confident (aka "I am not yet, but becoming..."----- into "my confidence (aka already here with me) is growing..."------ Now that might just be a real straight ahead way of "managing our unconscious".
Nothing spooky or underground there, simply an increase in consciousness.
Is it our level of consciousness that allows us to "manage our unconsciousness" ?