Well I went to eHarmony and while it looks great, I don't think it will work for me because I'm gay. However, I do have a male friend who is looking for Ms.Right and for New Year's I was going to buy him a membership to Match.com, but eHarmony looks better. So, I'll help him with eHarmony and soon he will find someone.
As for me, I expect to be with someone who values themselves and knows what they want in life. She's financially responsible, is in tune with personal growth and success minded in the non-material, non Type-A person way. I'm very ambitious, but I'm learning I can make way more money by working focused on my passion and less on being a work-a-holic. And I expect her to be the same way. Plus she is intellectual and bright, like me
I will not be resecuing anyone from their problems and I'm not going to be their parent, but an equal. It's just going to be mutual respect, support and building up. No drama, no "I don't know what to do with my life" type stuff.
And that's what I'm attracting. Oh..and she will be posh and fashionable like me, because I read fashion magazines on a daily basis! I love clothes
