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Originally Posted by avaj   cute indeed. cuter than MY real joke, last night:
Me: You know that guy who wrote "10 reasons not to have a religion". Well, he and his wife have decided to see other people. Have you ever considered getting involved with other women?
Husband, genuinely horror-stricken: God help me! One is more than enough!!
I think I've scarred him for life  |
I am kind of in the same frame of mind your husband seems to be in. I have one woman as a life mate and can not see myself enduring the increased complexity of several.
I can see the ability to genuinely love many people deeply and be committed to them but the mental, emotional and even physical gymnastics necessary to live this lifestyle seems overwhelming.
I have no negative beliefs about such relationships in general just a belief that it's complicated and personally my mantra has been "simplify, simplify, simplify."