Well my partner just pointed this thread out to me, and told me I should see whats going on here. Well, the fact of the matter is estudiant9 that, i was in the exact same situation as you about a year ago, was a 23 year old virgin, Yeah I'm not ashamed to say that, you know poeple would say i'm saving myself for the right person, or some thing like that, well, no, it just didnt happen with me, never got too interested in girls, hardly ever watched porn, infact it works the other way around with me, porn feels so artificial, that it turns me OFF.
Anyways, sorry about going on a tangent, but here I go, thankfully for me my partner wasnt a virgin, so that helped. Anyways, the moment arrived, and I was Excited, and scared shitless at the same time. It wasnt like I didnt know where what will go, but I was more consumed by what if I am not good enough, or what if i make a complete fool outta myself, well, it happenned. and to tell you the utter truth, the both of us were "UNABLE" to reach orgasm for the first two times if i remember right. Its not that the stimuli wasnt enough, believe me it was more than enough, but more than that, I was concentratin on the Orgasms more than the beautiful act of making love instead. Believe me,
that wont work! then eventually, we tried different positions and found our groove with each other. The most important advise from a fellow guy for whom Sex was a walk in the unknown, is that
Be Yourself. No need to portray yourself as anything or any one else.
You dont need to tell your partner that you know what youre doing, just go with it. Feel her, Connect with her, on an emotional level, BE with her. And it will all turn out fine. You'll understand her body more and more as you explore it, touching where turns her on, kissing where makes her go to LALA land! well, Go ahead man, just be yourself.
And if you have questions about the physical anatomy of a womans genitals, the internet can help you there, you'll find loads of pages about how to make your partner feel on top of the world, though i'd recommend you to find them yourself by going in an experiential direction, find out her spots as she finds out yours.
Making love to a person atleast for a man (my thinking) the the highest plane of expressing his love, usually men are not so vocal about expressing their feelings, I am some times, so i let my heart and my body do the talking at those times more often than I'd have ever imagined.
Dont fu*k her, make love to her, not her body but the person that she is.
And dont be nerveous, its a natural process, and the more amazing than any other natural processes I have been through as yet.
Take you time. And dont forget to enjoy yourself.
Max.