Phone Game
-call when you feel like it - next day is often best if you are getting a lot of numbers every week
-call several girls in a row when you are in a talkative mood
-use texting to keep numbers from staling out
-problems on the phone usually indicate problems in the initial interaction
Day2s
-do what you enjoy
-if she's out on a date with you, relax, she already likes you
-experiment with different dates and notice which ones are the most fun and lead the most consistent close rate
Sex
-most guys carry an insane amount of guilt about sex - they've been conditioned that sex is taking value from a woman
-women enjoy sex at least as much as men, probably even more
-learn to view sex as a mutual sharing of value
-you must come into alignment with your sexual desire and completely own it
-you must drop all judgements you have about women's sexuality - no madonna/whore complex, no thinking a woman who has a slept with a lot of men is a "slut" - to feel comfortable having sex with you, she must feel a sense of nonjudgment
-drop the idea that sex is a big deal - simply see it as a way to cement a connection with a woman
-while single, never leave the house without a condom
Relationships
-date a lot of women so that you can get clear about you like and don't like based on experiences and not unverified assumptions
-you don't really know someone until you've dated for a while - don't jump into an exclusive relationship until you can make a conscious choice based on compatible values, interests, sexual chemistry etc.
-that feeling of love should be with you at all times - you should have a feeling of love towards the entire world; you can then choose to direct that love at a deeper level towards your girlfriend/wife
-don't worry about her cheating - if it happens, it happens and you'll deal with it. Thinking about it will cause you undue stress and make you treat her in ways that will increase the likelihood of her cheating
-the couple that grows together stays together
-"forever" is a hypnotizing word - you can't predict the future. Take it one day at a time
-read: The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida
-2 keys: both partners emotionally healthy with high self-esteem and compatible values
Congruence Tests
-she is looking for weak spots in your character and where you lack integrity - wants to make sure she can trust you
-frame it in your mind as a cute game between the two of you
-respond with humor
Change her mood, not her mind
-when getting a negative response to a request, escalation etc., drop it
-shift her emotional state with humor, teasing etc.
-reinitiate
-Remember: these are only guidelines. There are no rules. Always think for yourself.
*NOTE* I cut out all the out all the "outer game" stuff because I think it's needlessly complicated
I suggest reading
Real Social Dynamics Blog: Outer Game Extravaganza instead.