I didn't make it through the entire blog post, I'll admit, and didn't even read all the thread posts, but I just scanned for a word from Erin, as I was wondering throughout my reading what her thoughts and feelings were (now I know, it was exactly as I predicted
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I wondered if Steve will be getting a divorce, if he has stopped loving Erin, since he mentioned the part in their wedding vows about being together as long as their love lasts... And if Erin is going to seek multiple partners.
I am baffled as to why people think you can't love everyone and live in Oneness when you are married. Eckhart Tolle wrote that you love and can live in Oneness, just that the degrees of love and closeness will vary. And a Oneness form of love is not the same kind of love as the romantic love, because it's not as close or intimate as the romantic partner. And what has sex to do with Oneness? If you really did this all for the sake of Oneness, then you would not only practice sex with one gender or certain people, you would be open to it with any human. Oneness does not mean having sex and sharing the most intimate emotional and physical bonds with every person on the planet, or even many of them.