There's nothing wrong in wanted sex or enjoying it. There's nothing wrong with one-night stands so long as everyone is clear on what they are getting, and not getting.
What I'm saying is that in your first post you said you were 'ruined' by your previous relationships.
So in response to that, maybe the PUA stuff isn't the first road you should go down. You might want to look at who you were being to allow these people into your life. Are you aligning with truth, love and power in your life?
A lot of the PUA material is manipulative. If that's the route you want to go down, then go. Just don't be surprised if you feel worse in the long run, rather than better. I'm pleased to learn there is more ethical PUA stuff about becoming more attractive and being your best self.
I hope you find what you want. Just be clear about what it is you really do want.
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